Author Archives: Shay

When Care Becomes Harm: How The Healthcare Industry Fails Trauma Survivors

In a smedical industry built for efficiency rather than empathy, trauma survivors like me are left to fend for ourselves. Time and time again, I freeze or dissociate during appointments, and the doctor doesn’t notice. They don’t record the signs … Continue reading

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

“The Suicide Disease” x 4

It is said that Complex Regional Pain Syndrome (CRPS) is “ranked among the most painful of all medical problems and has been nicknamed the ‘suicide disease’ because there is no cure and limited effective treatments. The pain from CRPS is … Continue reading

Posted in Healthcare | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

Near Death, Disbelieved, and Abandoned

“I haven’t had a shower since Monday so that’s my goal today. Have a shower. Also go for a walk would be good. if I can. I’ll see how my pain levels are and my energy. I can ignore pain … Continue reading

Posted in Interpersonal Neurobiology | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

For Survivors of Sexual Violence

For Survivors of Sexual Violence

Posted in Mental Health | Tagged , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Trauma Resources

Trauma Resources

Posted in Mental Health, Nervous System, Neuroscience | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

What is a Lapbook Gallery?

Near death for most of 2020, Shay Seaborne CPTSD struggled to effectively communicate their dire condition to trauma-uninformed healthcare providers. Additionally, they lacked exhibition space and opportunities to share their art. Shay devised a creative solution: the Lapbook Gallery. These … Continue reading

Posted in Art | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Made With Anger: “Throwing Pods” as safe communal release

Throwing Pods are a creative and therapeutic tool to release anger in a safe and constructive manner. Recognizing the need for an outlet for strong emotions, Shay Seaborne CPTSD designed these Pods to be thrown with a small group of … Continue reading

Posted in Art, Community, Fun & Magic, Interpersonal Neurobiology, Mental Health | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

My statement to the USCG officer who sexually assaulted me after a rescue at sea

The statute of limitations protects the Coastie who sexually assaulted me after a rescue at sea. There will be no criminal prosecution for his sexualized violence against a civilian he was charged to protect. However, there is a possibility of … Continue reading

Posted in Activism, Truth to Power | Tagged , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Interpersonal Neurobiology, a compelling framework for trauma and stress recovery

Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) is a compelling framework for trauma and chronic stress recovery due to its emphasis on: Integration of Brain, Mind, and Relationships: IPNB recognizes the interconnectedness of brain, mind, and relationships, promoting a holistic approach to healing by … Continue reading

Posted in Education, Healthcare, Interpersonal Neurobiology, Mental Health, Nervous System, Neuroscience, Thriving | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment